Don’t Say I Don’t Deserve The Things I Want
There is a saying that warns ‘be careful what you wish for, it just might come true.’ I don’t know if this is true, but what I do know is that I won’t let anyone tell me that I can’t get what I want or that I don’t deserve it.
We need to know who we are and who we want to be so that we can start working toward these things. It sometimes seems easy to figure out, but figuring out what we want to do with our lives and then putting this into practice is actually very difficult. Achieving all this requires knowing where we want to go, but once we have that in mind, what we earn will come to us naturally.
Only I know what I deserve
No one will ever know me better than I know myself. Only I know what I’ve been through and how I did it. This is why I always ask people not to judge me, because the experiences I’ve been through apply exclusively to me and got me to where I am today.
When you get to know yourself, you start to set your priorities and then act on them. You set your limits and find that some things make you happy, while other things make you feel uncomfortable. From this moment on you know what to allow yourself to enjoy life as much as you can. When you give yourself the things you deserve, you will attract what you need.
I need what I deserve and I can only get it if I give myself the chance to believe in it. I don’t want anyone in my life to make me believe that I don’t deserve what I need or that I’m not good enough for it. I want to enjoy the things I want and be thankful for them.
I deserve what I want
You’ve probably seen your confidence crumble more than once because someone made you look at yourself a certain way. Sometimes this may even have happened unconsciously. However, the sooner you learn to give yourself permission to be all you can and want to be, the sooner you’ll feel better about what you’re doing.
In bad situations, the following probably went through your mind a thousand times: I don’t deserve this because of what I’ve done; I didn’t do anything to deserve what happened to me etc. But what if the question were: where is the line between learning and unnecessary pain?
I’ve always thought it’s better to look at situations from the perspective that embraces what we allow ourselves: when we surrender to what we think we don’t deserve, we support the idea that we deserve it. We are the only ones who can guarantee that we will live every day the way we want.
If it makes me happy then it’s for me
I will not settle for something I think is not enough or for less than I really believe I deserve. It’s not that I want the most beautiful things in the world. I simply want people and things that make my world more beautiful. And I don’t need anyone to make me believe otherwise.
Sometimes we are blind to that which lies beneath the surface. For example, maybe you were in a relationship that wasn’t accepted by those around you because they didn’t think you deserved it.
Often in these cases we turn inward and do not want to listen, even though sometimes we should. After all, they love us and want the best for us. Other times, however, it would rather be the jealousy that makes them say what they say.
More than anything else, I need to know that the most important thing is that I’m happy so that the people around me are happy too. If I’m happy, I’m this to myself. I deserve it and I have to fight for it.
