Things Don’t Always Go According To Plan… And That’s A Good Thing
Many of us are stuck in a routine in which we are constantly planning our entire lives and constantly thinking about the future. Do you feel overwhelmed by things not going the way you hoped? Often, when we get used to always planning and keeping everything under control, we immediately have the urge to give up when something doesn’t go the way we want.
When we constantly think about the future and expect that everything that will happen to us will be perfect, this prevents us from standing still and reflecting on every possible lesson that the situations or experiences in our daily life can teach us and to apply these lessons. to understand.
When things don’t go as planned…
For all these reasons, and to free your heart and mind, it’s good that sometimes things don’t go the way you hoped or wished.
Maybe everything you carefully thought out and aligned turned out to be very different. Perhaps this moment will give you the chance to show the best of yourself, something very different from the usual.
Constantly striving to make your life perfect will not allow you to bring out the best version of yourself. Perhaps you forgot a while back that the present you live in, the here and now, is far more important than the future you are building day in and day out.
It could also be that the past becomes your best friend and you come up with all kinds of reasons to explain why you did certain things and why you did them that way. In moments like these, I find it helpful to tell myself that everything happens for a reason.
When you do new things, you will discover new things
Life shows us every minute, every second, every breath a valuable and wise life lesson. However, if you don’t dare to deviate from your routine, or rather, if you dare to step out of your comfort zone, you will never give yourself the chance to discover things.
Life challenges us in a sincere way by simply putting us in new situations every time to test us.
Your only mission is to observe every face, your own, full of colors and bright sparkles. Each face has its own talent and potential to face the situation, no matter how challenging this situation may be.
I recommend that you remember this and urge you not to get too overwhelmed when things don’t go the way you would have liked. Maybe it’s just a stroke of luck that things turn out differently, to show you that you still have a few things to learn first.
You can apply this to any aspect of your life and not just when you are thinking about and trying to plan your future. Remember that the most important thing in life is that you learn from every little detail.
When you get upset because certain actions or experiences don’t turn out the way you hoped, it only makes you unable to see that something better is coming your way.
Being present in the here and now will make it easier for you to choose the face you prefer. The face that best suits the moment and makes you who you really are, the best version of yourself.
